Dax Shepard and Kristen Bell's 12th anniversary post went viral for all the wrong reasons. A dark joke by Shepard about "never killing" Bell during Domestic Violence Awareness Month drew criticism for being tone-deaf and insensitive.Kristen Bell and Dax Shepard, often celebrated as Hollywood's most relatable and honest couple, are now under fire for a controversial social media post that took an unexpectedly dark turn. To celebrate their 12th wedding anniversary, Bell shared a picture of the two hugging, quoting her husband's comment that although he was "heavily incentivized," he would "never kill" her. What might have been intended as a playful expression of dark humor between spouses quickly spiraled into online outrage.
Many fans initially assumed it was just another example of the couple's offbeat humor. However, others were quick to point out the insensitive timing, as the post came during Domestic Violence Awareness Month. Critics argued that making light of spousal violence, even as a joke, sends a dangerous message -- especially when coming from public figures with massive influence. Several users labeled the comment "tone-deaf" and "out of touch," urging the couple to be more mindful of their platform.
Social media reactions were divided, with one half defending the pair's sense of humor and the other condemning the remark. Some expressed disappointment, saying they expected more sensitivity from a couple known for advocating mental health and healthy relationships.
Despite the backlash, several celebrity friends responded playfully. Actress Mae Whitman joked that they "would never let him get away with it," while comedian Howie Mandel added, "He should write for Hallmark." Yet, the growing criticism led Bell to limit comments on the post, a move fans saw as quiet acknowledgment of the misstep.
Together since 2007 and married in 2013, Bell and Shepard are parents to two daughters. They've been open about marriage counseling, conflict resolution, and Shepard's long battle with addiction. Their transparency has long been praised, but this incident serves as a reminder that authenticity must be balanced with awareness.
As of now, neither Bell nor Shepard has publicly commented on the controversy.